Capturing a "moment" often requires that you are a part of it and this can be hard if your partner isn't a "photographer." If you have an idea for a picture, get everything set up so all they have to do is press the shutter button. You might be surprised at how great the image turns out when you get to play with your kids.

Focus is as much about the subject as it is any technical "sharpness." Most modern cameras do a great job of autofocusing so that you can focus on what matters most.

Sometimes, you and your spouse should be in pictures together. In this case, I would recommend hiring a photographer. There are all kinds of photographers out there, but I would advise that you build a relationship with one. Trust is one of the most important things when trying to "look comfortable." Building rapport with someone can give you consistency in your family photos over time, as well as staying modern as your professional continues to change with their industry.

You may have noticed that I am looking at my children in all of the pictures on this post. Nothing is more important than what you are doing when you are playing with your kids. Don't let a camera distract you from being an attentive dad (or mom).